Books were sent to Safe Place in Morrilton, Frink Chambers Elementary in Mcalester Oklahoma, River Valley Shelter for Battered Women and Children in Russellville, First United Methodist in Harrison, Cherished Heartbeat in Heber Springs, and Women and Children First in Little Rock. It is nice to give in Cameron’s name. Derrick.

Our family is so grateful to the community of McAlester Oklahoma for the book drive this spring. We were presented with a large quantity of fabulous books by Heather Horton, our friend and a pre-school teacher at Jefferson in McAlester. We appreciate you!
Also, I would like to thank the Cannant family for the great books. It was great to see you all.
I express my sincere thanks to my brother and sister-in-law who always make me feel loved and cared for. The books are great. Thanks also to Cherry and the Scholtens for your contributions and continued support. Chris and Jay, Derrick had a great time and is so pleased to have been able to have the golf tourney in Mt. Home this year. You were both wonderful hosts and I know a great time was had by all.
Mom and Dad, just know that every moment and every effort behind the scenes and by our sides means the world. We couldn’t ask for a more supportive set of parents. I am just in awe of your love and constant ability to stand by us!
Angela, you have been a truly amazing friend and I thank you for keeping me afloat! You have single handedly helped me maintain my connections to McAlester. I know how much work went in to planning and pulling off that party. Thank you so much!
Angie and Emory, thanks for opening up your home to us and all the crowd. The party was a huge success and we felt so loved and remembered! You guys are the best.  Ren, you went above and beyond buying everyone’s dinner at Chef Billy’s.  We love that place.  I miss you!

We just played our annual golf tournament and raised over $1300. I would like to thank all who donated. Darren Bobbitt, Bud Brock, Shawn Fecher, kevin Keith, Rob Berry, Michael Berry, Jeremy Price, Eric Ardoin, Bobby Shumate, Rusty Compton, and Andy Beirnat. Thanks also to Hugg & Hall equipment and Tony & Francine Childers for their financial donations. There were a couple of guys who couldn’t make this years tournament but have donated every year, they are Woody Harrelson, Chris O’dwyer, and John Harrison. I appreciate all my friends for their time and efforts. You guys have always been there for me and I hope to return the favor someday. Derrick Bobbitt.

Today is Cameron’s birthday. She is not here to celebrate it. She was born in the year 2000, so it is always easy to remember how old she would have been. 9 this year. Wow. A 9 year old. That sounds so old.
The last birthday party we got to celebrate with Cameron was a princess party. All her little friends came over dressed as their favorite princesses. We had little Snowwhites and Cinderellas, Tinkerbelles, and Sleeping Beauties! They were all so precious. Cameron would not wear her princess costume. In fact, we had several and she wouldn’t wear any of them. She said they all itched. I was irritated with her. Here we had all these little princesses and she was supposed to be the head princess, but she wouldn’t dress the part. She wore her Easter dress– pink and frilly. She was my little princess, anyway!
Today, I don’t know what kind of party she would want. It is a beautiful day. The weather always cooperated for us on Cam’s bdays. She was always happy, and appreciative. I wish she were here. I miss her…
Today we will plant our little garden outback. My parents are coming over to help. I’ve got to take Kennedy and Brooklynn to dance recital practice first. And then we’ll get started. It won’t look like much at first because the tree and plants I ordered are dormant. That means that don’t really look like plants and trees right now, but should in a few months. This is a new experience for me, so we’ll see. Keep your fingers crossed that it turns out!
We’ll be sending balloons to Cameron at sunset. It’s the only way I know to send her anything that seems to head in the right direction. She is my little angel now. God has her. I ache for her. I love my baby. Happy Birthday in Heaven.
Love, Mama

May is a special and difficult month for our family. It is Cameron’s birth month. May 13 is the day she was born. It was actually the day before Mother’s Day and her first birthday was on Mother’s Day. You know, losing a child does not take away from the fact that you are a mother. I remember after Cameron died, I struggled with the question “How many children do you have?” I always wanted to say three, but I didn’t want to have to explain it or make the person feel awful for asking a standard question. I felt guilty saying two, like Cameron somehow didn’t count. Then I had Carington. I was able to answer 3 again, but it still didn’t feel quite right. I never had four children at one time, but I did have four babies. And I am still the mother of four girls. Losing a child just makes everything more difficult, even the simplest of questions.
I remember thinking how hard it would be if Cameron had been my only child. Not that it wasn’t impossible to begin with, but really, what would you say? You have an empty nest, you ache for your child, and you struggle with the issue of whether or not you really are even still a mother. That sounds unbearable, unimaginable. Yet, I know there are some mothers out there who struggle with this pain.
To those mothers I will say, “You are a mother, still. You are a mother yesterday, today, tomorrow, and always. You have a beautiful child and she is looking after you now. She is waiting for you. You must have hope, you must have faith. You must hold your head up high. You did a good job. And you loved your baby well. You didn’t deserve to lose your child. But you do deserve to be happy and whole. God loves you.”

We are headed to McAlester on Friday to celebrate Cameron’s life. We are also planning to plant a tree and flower garden on her birthday. Finally, Derrick and his friends are celebrating the 4th annual Cameron Averitt Bobbitt Memorial Golf Tournament. Thanks Guys!

Remember to send books or support the Cameron Bobbitt Memorial Fund. It is a great way to show your love for Cameron, and for us. It is a great way to help children. And you can even honor your mom in giving!